Merry Chrismakwanzikkah!!

Some interesting debate was created after our local school bus company decided that Christmas decor would not be allowed on school buses this year in order to respect the diversity of the residents in our town.  That seems to be a growing trend....no decor...no music...no celebrations of any kind that may promote the idea of Christianity.  I understand the motives of those who are trying to make sure that no one is offended by anything, at anytime, in any way.  There are a lot of things to be offended about these days...I admit that I sometimes take offense to what others say and do because of my own personal beliefs and values.  So I get that.  I am also a believer in supporting others to express themselves.  To speak their mind.  To give their view.  To be all that they feel that they are.  I don't think you make people change their views by making them shut up.  It just makes people angry and resentful.  So, instead of telling one group of people that they can't be who they are because it will offend others, why don't we just encourage ALL people, of all belief systems to be themselves be proud of the citizens they are?  Celebrate being human in any way you feel is right for you.  Shout it from the rooftops!  And celebrate others who shout something different than you do.

Merry Chrismakwanzikkah Belleville!!

Do unto others...

I had a conversation with a friend yesterday about organized religion.  We talked about the things we like and don't like about religious groups and their effect on people's behaviour.  We agreed that there are both negative aspects of belonging to a church as well as positive ones.  What started as a chat about religion, turned into a discussion on the "golden rule" of  "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".  This instruction can be found in almost every religious text, in every part of the world.  It is basically a prompt to be kind to others.  I think with our culture of social media and social isolation, we sometimes forget the importance of being kind.  Being kind isn't just good for the recipient of a generous act.  It is just as important for the giver of the act.  To offer kindness to someone has a positive effect on our mood, our sense of belonging, and our own sense of self-worth.  Did you know that if you are even present when someone else performs an act of kindness, YOU will benefit for the positive energy that the event creates?!

Kind acts don't have to be large investments in time or money.  A small gesture can have the same impact on the lives of people.  Carry someone's bag, buy them a coffee, give away your parking space, offer someone a ride....the list of things is as long as your imagination.  You'll feel great afterward..I promise.